Destructive Anger Destroys

10 Jun

Over the past few days we’ve witnessed more and more global unrest and calls for changes along with recognition of how the black community has been systematically treated. The death of George Floyd, along with far too many other coloured people, in the USA is a tragic, horrific thing, but it has lit a fireball that might yet engulf thousands of more lives. It was a wrong action by that officer, others were wrong around him, that caused a death; and there have been similar actions by other officers in the past. Thankfully very very few in the UK compared to some educated countries, but nowhere is immune.

The Black Lives Matter movement has a wish (not using the word agenda, it has connotations) and in the twenty first century, forward thinking, prosperous West, you’d think we’d be able to get it right more than wrong.

Watching the marches, the protests, the taking the knee, it is a commendable grand gesture but how does it teach, enlighten or instruct. I am fully aware that these events contain a few hell bent on chaos and destruction and a few more who get polluted by the mob mentality, but I am yet to understand how defacing buildings, statues, plinths, memorials will teach, enlighten or educate.

Where do I learn the other side of the story without being branded a racist, a privileged white b*itch, or such like, or being shouted at “you’ll never understand coz you’re not black”. Violence, rage, destruction, aggressive language etc will not help change minds, or teach a better way, it will fuel the old assumptions and stereotypes. It will instil fear and anxiety.

There was a particular image that enraged me to utter gutteral wanton disgust … it made me so angry I wished true, long term harm upon another person. Here is that image.

This is the Cenotaph. It stands in Whitehall, London. There are only three words on it “The Glorious Dead” and we see someone trying to set fire to the Union flag. The Cenotaph is a memorial to all those who died in the World Wars, all those who enlisted, all those who volunteered, all those hundreds of thousands who were conscripted, from ALL nations of the Commonwealth (last time I checked that warmly, willingly, includes ethnic minorities). For the millions who fought, suffered, were injured, who died, defending and protecting many rights and freedoms people so quickly abuse today. This person saw fit to trample and abuse that – my cynical sarcastic mind wants to ask “Is it because the Portland stone is too white?”

So what will the consequences be, for me ….. Well, I’ll be blunt and honest, it will scare me. What if as I go to enter a door and don’t stop to let the ethnic person go first, am I about to be called racist. If I hold the door to let the ethnic person go first, am I exerting my white privilege. If I enquire for explanation or understanding about an opinion or action, am I being confrontational. I fully realise that not everyone is carrying that hair triggered chip on the shoulder but because so many do, how do I avoid getting snapped at, or flattened with a knee at my neck.

Dear World, I myself alone have no control on what happened during the past two-three hundred plus years or more. In that, I am powerless. I can only be responsible for my personal actions of the past five decades (and a smidge bit, very slim but more). I hope I have always been equally respectful and friendly to everyone I have ever encountered, for that is the best I can do.


Posted by on June 10, 2020 in In The News, Life, people


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8 responses to “Destructive Anger Destroys

  1. Jocelyn

    June 10, 2020 at 4:54 pm

    Very well put.

    Liked by 1 person

  2. deacongill

    June 11, 2020 at 1:54 pm

    It’s all much, much more complex, as usual, than the media is presenting. I empathise with the rage that black people feel about a society that systemically privileges white people and still seeks to excuse the actions of slave traders. On the other hand, as you say, violence will make things worse, as both Gandhi and Luther King affirmed. Have you read this?

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    • AnneMarie

      June 11, 2020 at 2:01 pm

      I was aware of the decades of attempts to remove the Colston statue and never understood why those peaceful, proper channels, appeals failed.

      If all the statues are removed, do we dismantle every building too, because they were paid for by blood money, then what. Our history has not paid enough attention to the failings of the past, but as someone once said history is written by the victors.

      There are sectors of society that are discriminated against, vilified, mistrusted etc, information and education is called for. But as a friend of colour remarked, you whites like your language, we blacks want action.

      It will continue to rumble and fester for a long time yet.


      • deacongill

        June 11, 2020 at 8:48 pm

        Indeed it will. We have to look towards what makes up a truly just society, and work towards that.

        Liked by 1 person

  3. snowbird

    June 11, 2020 at 8:28 pm

    It’s all so complicated isn’t it? Some people are more extreme than others. We certainly can’t unwrite

    Liked by 1 person

    • AnneMarie

      June 11, 2020 at 8:39 pm

      I am no longer sure if the issue once understanding or revenge.


  4. menhir1

    June 18, 2020 at 8:32 pm

    Destructive anger by its very nature destroys, though not everything. Sadly, airbrushing history has been going on since time immemorial by the conqueror. There’s a huge discussion to be had here, first, at a direct ground level and then reviewing the intricate facets. What outcome is desired and to what purpose; what can be/will be tolerated? In the meantime, there is the bloody mess, the destructive anger with the long overdue need to be heard. xxx

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